Tuesday, April 30, 2019

Belated Easter post - holy cow, April got away from

April has been quite the month. Nothing bad, just lots of taking care of ourselves.

Tom had sinus/deviated septum surgery. I was scared to death with all the horror stories of recovery but...he was amazing! They didnt pack his sinus's so he was almost back to normal in a few days.

I had my 1st colonoscopy and...similar to the above, was terrified of the prep. But, it wasnt bad at all. Trying to figure out if it was a worthwhile weight loss plan though.

Billy had 2 taekwondo tournaments, 1 in Brainerd and 1 in Kansas City.  We pawned him off on another family for KC because...

Jimmy had 3 junior day football college recruiting visits (Moorhead, Drake and Mankato) and I just couldn't handle being gone for another weekend of driving.

Kay is doing better in some ways (we got her on meds and she's actually taking them plus she's doing well in 2 of her classes) but much worse in others (sneaking out, vaping, trying to cheat on a test). We knew her teenage years were going to be challenging but ... holy cow. We are in for a ride.  I've been going to therapy to get parenting advice and she's tried it twice (convinced the therapist she was fine) and then we had the ever intimidating joint session. I think it went well. At the very least, both our therapists see our dynamic and now her therapist has some good material to work with (sort of like a disfunctional comedian).  Fingers crossed she can help find ways to make better choices when she's feeling overwhelmed.

Maui is "almost" potty trained in his kennel (indoors) but still won't "go" when he's on a walk. He comes inside after the walk, runs right to his kennel and does his business.  Sort of like Jim F, he doesnt like to poo in public.

Nikki is a doll, she and Maui play for hours and she's so gentle with him.  I think he's good for her but... she's showing her age, moving slower and her hips seem to bother her.

So, Easter ended up being a bright spot in the month. The kids (Kay) insisted on eggs, candy and baskets. Unfortunately, years ago we started a tradition of a scavenger hunt for their "big" present.  I was at a loss but managed to pull it out at the last minute.  Tom, Jimmy, Billy and I went to church with Jimmy. It was fun and Billy (my introvert) seems a bit overwhelmed. Kay slept through it of course.  "The Hunt" was post lunch and the kids all claimed that the bunny FINALLY brought good candy.  Then we called Grandma H and wished her a "Happy Easter! Bunny." Our favorite joke of the year.

So...whew.  Tomorrow is May. Another crazy month but .... we wouldn't have it any other way....

Snow in April, on the day of Tom's surgery

The PT's at the hospital made a snowman

Recovery 

Silly man, I didnt take an 'after' shot of my colonoscopy. Your welcome.

Brained team TKD water park.

Billy ROCKED it in Brainerd. Best sparring match of the year 

These two. they are constantly playing 

1st bike ride of the season!! (once the snow melted)

Jimmys friends slept the WHOLE way to Morehead

So did Jimmy. It  was a boring drive for me. Both ways