Kays Gotcha Day!

Another year with Kay in our forever family, YEAH!

Sunday was Kays Gotcha Day which is the anniversary of the day we brought her home from Korea.  As part of our tradition, you get to pick your dinner and special dessert and we spend the day celebrating:)






Kay had a sleep over Saturday night which lasted into a morning playdate and then 4 hours of gymnastics so... we didn't get a ton of time to celebrate her during the day. I think we just got a preview of life with a busy teenager/adult but... we DID have a special dinner. Kay's choice?!

Fondue.

Not sure what else to say - lots of variety, small dishes, mini taste treats, a bit putzy and high maintenance to put together, a lot of dishes to clean up but all over super yummy and a fun communal meal.  Come to think of it, this is a pretty good description of Kay herself!

We did cheese, chocolate and chicken stock with ginger/lime fondue with lamb, veggies, fruit, bread and for the special dessert (yes, the chocolate fondue was part of dinner not dessert) mini DQ icecream cupcakes. All I have to say is - this is a pretty tasty new menu item at DQ. Check it out!

It was fun to reminisce about bringing Kay home, and we asked the boys their 1st favorite memory of her.









jimmy's - meeting her at the airport and then showing her her room when we got home (it was a pretty cute memory)











Billy's - when she accidently pushed him off the couch on his 1st day home. Now... I'm not sure he doesn't actually remembers this as he was 7 months old but...we do have it on video (yes video) and the kids watch it all the time. Turns out a baby falling off the couch is pretty good entertainment.














Mom/Dads - when we met her at her foster parents home in Seoul, her foster grandma was so in love with her and was so upset that she was going to be leaving that she scooped up Kay and left. We didn't know what to do and weren't sure she was actually going to come back.

It reminds us how much love there is in the world for our kids - their birth parents making an absolutely unfathomable choice out of love, their foster parents for deeply loving a child that they only got to love for a very short amount of time, our friends and family that supported us in our journey to Kay and the adventure that IS Kay, and all the social workers, lawyers, politicians, etc that make it possible for a white middle class family in Minnesota to become the forever family to a talented, spirited, loving, active, funny person from Seoul Korea.

Thank God for all this universal GOOD!!!  

 

Montreal Merci...

Tracy decided that with the kids having a PA Day (which means no school) it was time to head over and visit Montreal. Our friend Carol and her family, husband David, son Josh and daughter Lauren live there as well, so we made plans for a bit of a reunion, haven't seen them all since India, and off we went.

The train was the mode of transportation and let me tell you it is the way to go. Tasty snacks, cold beer or wine and no driving! We had a nice little section to our selves, the kids plugged into the Wi-Fi and it was all good! The trip was about 5 and 1/2 hours which is about the same as if you drive but did I mention they have cold beer on the train!

We arrived around 10:00pm and headed off to find our B&B as well as a place to eat. The downside to train travel, if there is a downside, is that the snacks are expensive and not very big, translated the kids were starving! We found a super nice neighborhood restaurant which had just about anything you wanted. Billy, whom you may know is now a Greek food addict, had to have a gyros - as you can see he was in heaven! We finished up dinner and fell into bed exhausted.

Friday we headed out via the subway to explore the bio-sphere, the insectarium, the planetarium and the old Olympic stadium. The kids were skeptical but given no choice we ready to practice their French, well their limited French. The bio-sphere was really cool a sort of fully enclosed tropical rain forest type thing. We saw tons of animals, walked through a forest that got me seriously home sick for deer season, it smelled just like the north woods, awesome. We even saw a gigantic Gueenne pig, the thing that made our skin crawl when we were in Costa Rica a couple of years ago, it was huge and made the most blood curdling noise, prehistoric (a Capaybara)! The insectarium was sort of a let down but there were several really crazy looking gigantic cock roach looking things from Indonesia that I hope were not present whilst we slept in India, Ode to a hard freeze comes to mind!
The planetarium was unbelievable and Tracy & Billy just geeked out. Way way cool. The stadium was not accessible while we were there so we headed back to the condo and met Carol and her daughter Lauren for dinner. They were shocked at how big the kids were and they took us to this awesome Latin walk in dive of a place that has seriously 'shut the front door' good food! Chorizo tacos, fresh salsa and guac, you gotta eat here!

Saturday we headed out to tour Old Montreal, think cobblestone streets, narrow roadways, coffee shops, small cafes, art galleries ...a real European feel, artsy. The kids were in awe of Notre Dame cathedral, it was stunning. The actually sat still and listened during the tour and even places a few loony's in the collection basket and we lit candles and said a prayer, religious experience. We wandered around the little village (if you will) and then headed into the science museum, and the had  reciprocity with their sister museum in Toronto, one where we belong so bingo a freebie! There were several great interactive stations where we made a balloon body suit, made up scary stories to be told around a campfire and the kids even got to levitate, how fun is that! Dinner was at the crazy good Greek restaurant, Billy was in heaven - again, we meet Carol and her husband David, we did not get to see Josh, bummer. David and Carol both drove so they gave us a ride back to our place an a tour on Mount Royal and a trip to the Montreal Bagel factory, which is awesome. The make the bagels and cook them in a wood burning oven, and soak the bagels in a honey water mixture that makes them both super moist and crunchy at the same time, foodie in me was in awe. AND, it operates 24/7. Crazy talk!

Sunday we had those bagels and coffee and then headed back to the subway - to the train - to the Toronto subway - to walk home, rather urban of us don't you think!?! Montreal was a blast and we will definitely make a return trip, OUIOUI Mercie! Kay was definitely done :)

Scholastic Update

The reports cards are here the reports cards are here.....
Well not really the progress reports came out last week and the kids as usual did great! The Elementary Progress Report Cards is designed to show the your child's development of the learning skills and work habits as well s general progress in working towards the achievement of the curriculum expectations in all subjects. Translated it means the first few rounds are a tie as the fighters feel each other out..just saying.

The areas of focus for the progress reports are in two separate categories with several subsets of each. They are Learning skills and work habits, the subcategories are: responsibility, organization, independent work, collaboration, initiative and self-regulation. The second category is subjects which include: language, French, ( not Billy), Mathematics,Science and Technology, History, geography, Health and Phys-Education and The Arts.

Jimmy has really taken to being a self starter as far as homework and taking ownership of his studies. So much so he is now using that as a platform to get his own computer, because he could get his homework done without having to tie up the home computer...like I said a real self starter. Jimmy is meeting or exceeding every one of the categories and is extremely focused on the arts and playing drums for the first time in front of his peers. He is committed to school and his focus is paying off!! His goal is to make honor roll and at this pace, he'll get there! fun to see him taking a responsible approach to school:)

Kay is a super enthusiastic learner, loves school, all sorts, and she too is meeting or exceeding in all the categories, well except two, which are organization and self-regulation. However in her defense it is hard to be a budding artist, culinary protégé and follow the rules to a T. She is doing very well in French and is out of the park when it comes to drama, but we knew that already!

Billy can not get enough of social studies and he rounds out the trifecta of meeting and or exceeding expectations. He did score a progressing very well in social studies. He also can use art to express ideas about what he cares about in his community and environment. (what ever that means) Billy is super happy in third grade, loves his teacher, his friends and Canada. Hes the kid that would want to stay here permanently. Canada has been really good to Billy, he's come into his own.

All in all high marks, and a great start to the school year, well done!!
We are proud of you!!!!

Final Football Game Post

The Grizzlies came into the championship game full of determination, grit and self confidence, they had become football team.

They didn't let just anybody in that club, it took every ones full heart and sweat and blood,
to get to wear those game day jersey's down the hall, the Kings of school.
The Boys of Fall.

The Grizzlies were  going up against the Burlington Stampede, a team that beat he Grizzlies last year 55 to 0, the boys were ready. In his Facebook post the tight-end for the Grizzlies ( and the only tight end in the league) number 77 Jimmy Murphy had this to say to his teammates "all of the training, running and practices have come down to this game. The AAA Championship. Let's Go Grizzlies!!!!"

Well it's turn and face the stars and stripes,
it's fighting back the butterflies,
It's call in the air alright yes sir we want the ball
And it's knockin' heads and talking trash,
It's slingin' mud and dirt and grass
It's I got your number, I  got your back,
When your backs against the wall.
You mess with one man, you got us all.
The Boys of Fall.

The Grizzlies came out of the locker room marched into the field and took that heart, soul, sweat and blood and ...at the end of the first half it was Grizzlies 14 Burlington 12. The game was full of incredible offense and defensive plays, the boys on both sides of the ball played every down like it was the last and the fans were in awe of the performance and the game. It truly was a once in a lifetime game...

In the second half the intensity went up. Jimmy played flawless football, caught 2 key passes ran each for a first down and set up  a run that got the Grizzlies to the one yard line and after 3 quarters the Grizzlies were up 20 to 12.

Well it's turn and face the stars and stripes,
it's fighting back the butterflies,
It's call in the air alright yes sir we want the ball
And it's knockin' heads and talking trash,
It's slingin' mud and dirt and grass
It's I got your number, I  got your back,
When your backs against the wall.
You mess with one man, you got us all.
The Boys of Fall.

The Stampede, the number one team in the league were not in first place by a flook, they are a great football team and with just 3 minutes to go tied the game 20 to 20. The Grizzlies fumbled the ball and the Stampeded got it back with a little more than a minute to play and two plays later they too fumbled the ball. The Grizzlies threw a pass to their tight-end (Jimmy) who ran the ball down the field to about the 50 yard line and the game was over, tied and into overtime.
The way over-time works is ...each teams gets the same about of possessions to try and score. Meaning if the first team scores, then the opponent gets a chance, if they don't score the game is over if they do then it goes into another overtime until there is a winner.

They didn't let just anybody in that club, it took every once of heart and sweat and blood,
to get to wear those game day jersey's down the hall, the Kings of school.
The Boys of Fall.

The Grizzlies won the coin toss and after a near turn over and loss of 15 yards', came back to center. Hand off to the running back, great outside blocking and the Grizzlies were up again 26 to 20, the point after was blocked. The Stampede came out strong and after a hard fought battle scored and they to missed the extra point and the game was tied again at 26 apiece.

In little towns that's all they got
Newspaper clippings fill the coffee shops
The old men will always think they know it all
young girls will dream about the boys off fall.

The second overtime starts with the last team to have the ball. The Stampede came out and drove the Grizzles back and after 2 first downs and two near turn overs, scored and took the lead for the first time on the game, they missed the extra point and the score was 32 to 26. In his Facebook post the tight end for the Grizzlies summed up the game with this:
 "The championship came down to the wire. The game went to double overtime. We scored, then they scored, then they scored again. Then we were driving to tie the game. We hand it off to our running back, he plowed forward for about 7 yards, then all of the sudden the ball is on the ground they recover it and that was the game. Coaches debated with the ref but his decision was final. Final score of the game was 32-26. Great game and an overall great season. Get them next year boys"

We are proud of the Grizzlies and Jimmy. The team played hard and stayed in there and never, ever gave up. However we were never more proud of Jimmy than when he came out of the locker rooms tears coming down his face, his head held high and high 5'ing his teammates. Coach Ron cam up to Jimmy and said 'I am proud of you stand tall you are a winner'! Jimmy's Offensive Coach, Coach Ainsley was unable to talk he was choked up and gave Jimmy a hug and barely got the words " Thanks for  great season" out of his mouth.


They didn't let just anybody in that club, it took every once of heart and sweat and blood,
to get to wear those game day jersey's down the hall, the Kings of school.
The Boys of Fall.

Way to go Grizzlies!!!!!

Halloween, Football and Spanish Class what a weekend!

The ghost and goblins were out in force here on Halloween and the kids joined right on in!
Jimmy was hoping for a football practice to get in the way of his having to get a costume this year and for a moment it looked like it was going to happen but at he last minute the team decided there was to much at stake to risk the kids coming to practice with all the goblins on the loose, so he had to scramble and come up with a costume. Lucky we have few " spares" laying around and he chose to trick or treat as Stewie Griffin from the family guy. For not wanting to go out he left the house with his buddies around 4:00 and came home at 8:30.

Kay and Billy spent several days trying on costumes and after several botched attempts settles on a witch, Kay and a storm trooper, Billy. Billy's TKD has a Halloween party every year complete with candy, lots of running around and pizza! Then it was home for large back packs to store the loot and off with the neighbor kids for several hours of uninterrupted candy mania. I may have forgot to mention that it was about 45 degrees and raining the whole time but did that stop the Red Barron from rising out of the pumpkin patch, I say bah, bring on the candy!! We wandered the neighborhood with several friends, went to the haunted house, yes one of the neighbors sets up an actual haunted house complete with zombies, creepy things, smoke and mirrors and it was awesome. Tracy hung around home and handed out around 200+ pieces of candy, it was nuts. In fact the trick or treaters were relentless and Jimmy had to dig into his own stash to give the last few a treat, it was then blow out the candle , shut the lights, have a bowl of potato leek soup with the neighbors and then off to slumber dreaming of cavities, trips to the dentist and more candy!!! Happy Haddoween, as Jimmy used to say !

Saturday morning brough the last day of Spanish Cooking class for Tom and one step closer to his Chef Certificate! The class was all about farmer influenced recipes and produce and marrying them with treats from the sea, the field and a bit of sweetness, it was awesome. This class featured Chef Beverly and she brought great insight, stories and challenged us each and every class. Now we have several awesome paella's, stews, lamb and meatball recipes for your enjoyment next time  you stop by! Tom's friend Sylvia has been in several classes with him and they finally were photographed doing something besides talking with the Chef and BSing about food!







Sunday afternoon the Grizzlies took the field against the Twin City Wildcats, a team that beat the Grizzlies 26 to 6 in the last meeting.  The Grizzlies took the field and Jimmy with a swagger of confidence and determination got them fired up in his traditional no holds barred chanting. The Grizzlies won the coin toss and 3 plays later were in the end zone, 6 to 0 and they never looked back. The boys played an almost flawless football game, and they won the game 28 to 6 giving up a touchdown with less than a minute to play, which considering the kids on the field had never played defense before was awesome. Jimmy play tight end and in this game, even caugth a pass and ran for a 1st down. He's the only cathcing tightend in his age group. Pretty cool. For the record, Jimmy is the 3rd string quarterback and was brought into the game with less than 30 seconds to play because he can execute the perfect 'taking of the knee', the cli[p below demonstrates his ability. In his quarterback career he has, no completions, no interceptions and a total of minus 2 yards! The team is exactly where the want to be going into the championship game on a roll and facing Burlington, the other team that beat the Grizzlies earlier this year. This boys are focused and determined GO Grizzlies !!!

PSA: The Toronto Police have been relentless and methodical trying to get to the bottom of the crack cocaine issues surrounding our Mayor, Rob Ford. In a statement yesterday the Mayor said " Yes I did try crack cocaine, that was over a year ago and I am not an addict! As far as the video tape showing me smoking crack, I need to see that I may have been in one of my drunken stupors " really,, don't blame me I was drunk, Mayor Ford your going with that!?!?!?! You cant make this stuff up...
More to come.......